Behaviour principles written statement

This document is not policy or practice, rather it is a statement to set out Abbots Farm Infant School’s broad principles and values with regard to behaviour that is both expected and promoted within the school.

Actual, practical applications of these principles are the responsibility of the headteacher, who will view each case in light of these principles and any relevant policies.

The Governing Body is aware and approves of this statement, believing it accurately reflects the school’s ethos and that effective learning and development relies on good standards of behaviour.

This is why, at Abbots Farm Infant School, we seek to uphold high standards of behaviour that are guided by the principles within this statement.


  • The school’s primary concern is the safety, wellbeing and education of all children; actions taken in cases of bad behaviour are with the intention of upholding their wellbeing and academic progress, as well as fulfilling our safeguarding responsibilities.
  • All members of the school community must be treated inclusively and be free from any form of discrimination or prejudice – whether it be racial, ethnic, gender, sexual orientation, religious or age-based.
  • The school will create and maintain an atmosphere and ethos of tolerance, equality, diversity, respect, understanding, kindness and a sense of citizenship throughout the school community in everyday practice.
  • All children, staff and visitors should feel safe in the school environment at all times through a high quality of care, support and guidance.
  • All children have a right to fulfil their greatest academic and personal potential and feel they are valued members of the school by both their peers and school staff, and should be free from bullying, discrimination and distracting peer behaviour.
  • Our three rules of being safe, being responsible and communicating are to be consistently applied across the school and where sanctions are exercised, they should be proportionate to the misdemeanour, in line with the school’s Behaviour and Relationships Policy.
  • Good behaviour around school is to be acknowledged and rewarded at the discretion of staff, who will judge appropriately.
  • At Abbots Farm Infant School, we want to foster a community and collective ethos amongst all members of the school and promote values of caring, empathy, teamwork and coordination.
  • We recognise that understanding our emotions is a key aspect of understanding and managing behaviour. Through Emotion Coaching and being attachment aware, both children and adults are able to both manage their behaviour and to create an environment that is conducive to learning. We understand that part of our role, in partnership with home, is to help pupils to understand what is right and wrong.
  • In cases of problematic behaviour, regardless of how sustained and disruptive, the child’s out-of-school circumstances and possible special educational needs and disabilities must be taken into account. Comprehensive support is given before or alongside disciplinary measures – suspensions are to be used only as a last resort where other measures fail.
  • Any kind of violence, threatening behaviour or abuse between children, or by children/parents/carers towards the school’s staff, will not be tolerated. If a parent/carer does not conduct himself/herself properly, the school reserves the right to ban them from the school premises and, if the parent/carer continues to cause disturbance, he or she may be liable to prosecution.
  • Guidance on the use of reasonable force will be agreed upon by the headteacher and governing body, and is clearly set out within the school’s Behaviour and Relationships Policy.

General expectations

  • All members of the school community should be aware of behavioural expectations and the relevant policies, and agree to them as fair and reasonable. These will be made readily available to read and we expect our school community to demonstrate our 3 rules: Be safe, be responsible and communicate.
  • Polite and considerate behaviour is to be maintained by all around the school, both in and out of the classroom.
  • Offensive or insulting language is not to be used in any circumstances, deliberately or otherwise.
  • Each child receives the necessary behavioural support according to their specific needs.
  • Bullying (and cyber bullying) is not tolerated and children should report any case of bullying they experience or observe to school staff.
  • Children should help staff by showing good behaviour in the classroom, not distracting themselves or others from important learning.
  • Staff will lead by example and model their conduct in line with the school’s standards.
  • To keep the children and staff safe, the headteacher will utilise their powers to search or use reasonable force in order to keep individuals from harming, or further harming, themselves or others.
  • Everyone in the Abbots Farm Infant School community should understand that the school’s emphasis is on encouraging and praising good behaviour and supporting individuals who are struggling to meet the expected behavioural standards.

This written statement, and the policies that are influenced by it, applies to all children and staff   inside and outside of school, when acting as ambassadors, when engaged in extra-curricular activities, such as educational trips and visits and when being educated as a member of Abbots Farm Infant School.